"Taking XXX for granted"

This phrase has been used
over and over again by many
over and over again in many situation
over and over again under different circumstances

But sometimes
do you ever wonder why
even though such common term
even though every one noes this term
yet everyone is making this sinful mistake

today
it hit me
probably this phrase has a deeper meaning
this phrase is not simplified well enough (even though it is as simple as it seem at this pt)
well perhaps
this explanation will help
" the more you acquire, the less you feel"

and so it linked explicitly or implicitly to the phrase "Taking XXX for granted" 

many a times 

because we already have acquire something 

be it friendship, wealth, love, family,  health (the most common) 

we tend not to feel it at all 

because we have been having it all these while 

it will be until the day you lose it 

the day where you lose acquiring it - you will indeed feel more about it

Here is wad i picked up from the book i m currently reading 

*quoted from ONE Fifth Avenue 

Money wants what it CAN'T buy. 

Class and talent. 

And remember that. 

While there's a talent for making money, 

it takes real talent to know how to spend it

Well in terms of wealth here it is 

Think  deeper in terms of health per se 

We acquire health 

in fact most of us did

the moment we come to earth 

but it sad to know 

that those who treasure health 

and fight for the right to remain here 

are those that are not born with 

perfect tip top health conditions 

it will only be the day where we are down with something serious 

then will we start to feel sorry 

regret over what we lost 

What about family, and love ones 

inevitably 

we regret the things we did 

regret not making certain statements such as "i m really sorry for making a grave mistake"

regret making certain statements such as "i will never want to see you again" 

regret not carrying out certain actions such as clearing still water around the house, so no wants get bitten by deadly mosquitoes, or clearing the house up for your parents to show them you love them, getting small surprises up for ur partner to tell them that they have not been forgotten for the love they have given to you 

Regret performing certain actions like shouting or yelling at them, hitting them, making a fuss and make the relationship sour 

and yet regret 

and crying over spilt milk 

always comes right after 

you lose acquiring it 

... indeed the more you acquire, the less you feel 

... and of course the less or rather none you acquire, the more you feel 

well on a side note 

Bear this in mind 

While focusing on ur dream 

dun forget to look at what you already have 

while looking at ur dream 

you will stay young and youthful 

by not looking at ur regrets 

... But learn from them =) 

Eve out