Evelyn Tan

i had a good talk with my mum todae

well
boils down to relationship again
yet another failure
this time round
their party was the maids that served the family

much happen
abuse - kids and wife
male - not working, leaving on wife, refuse to work, refuse to sell away van, refuse everythin
male - blames the wfe for not spending time with him, blames the wife for not giving him the money to study, blames the wife for not buying a car for him many more.
and so the family fell apart

in the first place
the mum had not agree with this relationship
male did not have qualifications - reason of the mum
female refused
"we can slove things together if we love each other"
"if all mums are like u, all the low qualification guys no need to find a wife alr"
but i guess the mum saw sth coming alr
she said
"life will be hard for u in the future"
"fine go ahead if u wan to"

now
males hops from job to job
sold flat make money
took the money to start a business
business fails
why!?
things like drilling holes etc, he does not noe how to do
so - hire external help, gave em commision ( job done by wife)
hushband scolded the wife
"why u get others to do, we do it ourselve earn more money"
roar!
wth!

jus one of the many incidents
i cant take it
its not the first time things like tat happened
perhaps tats what spells much of my phobia

turns - here i come
was i in the right state of my mind to feel this way for u
eve out